Rimming...

Well, here it is. How to master the art of rimming. Some say it's the most fantastic sensation imaginable, others won't do it if you paid them. So what's it all about...for those who dare to venture? 

I think the most important aspect of rimming is to have a clean slate to work with. In other words, for me, no dirty arseholes. No thanks. Also, being clean on the on the inside is desirable. A visit to the bathroom before any rimming session would be a must if you want it to be enjoyable for both yourself and your partner. In other words, a good rimming isn’t something you’re going to do at the drop of a hat when the mood strikes in an empty elevator or storage cupboard. It takes a bit of planning.

The effort, however, is well worth it. I would have to say, out of all the things someone can do to another, rimming is one of those things that drives me crazy. My partner, too. When my arse is getting licked my spine turns to jelly and I go weak at the knees, pliable for anything that will follow. There is just something about someone willing to lick me there that is such a fucking turn on!

Rimming techniques can be as varied as any other sexual act, but basically, move that tongue. For me, I like to have things start off slow and delicate. Little tickles, gentle swipes, and of course, lots of groaning and delicious slurping noises. Remember, men are visual animals, too, so I think the best thing to do is to rim him while he’s on his back. That way he can see you down there, bobbing up and down as you roll your tongue over his arsehole.

Penetration is an option, but make sure he's clean. Make your tongue hard and insert with little jabs, rubbing the sphincter first to let him know that he’s in for a treat. If he’s clean, it won’t taste like anything other than warm skin. So no deterrent there. After the initial licking and insertion, I really like to have my arsehole wiped off my buttocks! In other words, lick like you mean it. In long lashings and with plenty of saliva, groaning and slurping and even giggles. Again, like giving a blow job, do it like you enjoy it. It will DRIVE HIM nuts. 

As I have mentioned before, no matter how well endowed your tongue is (and even if you are Gene Simmons) you cannot and will not be able to stimulate his prostate with it. It’s a matter of where that little chestnut-sized, donut-shaped gland is placed. It’s well enough away for even the keenest tongue (about three-four inches from the anal opening). People, even if you read a story where “he/she licked his prostate” it just isn’t possible (and if you know someone who can, send them over to my place. I would need proof). I usually throw those books out of my eReader. The author clearly having no clue as to anatomy.

Anyway...back on track. 

You have hands, use them. Nothing better than getting licked down there and being jerked off or having your balls massaged or having your rim rubbed along with that tongue. Oh, my goshness! On the other side of the coin, I don’t like having my head held while I am working. I know what I’m doing, just relax and let me get on with it :-)

I think that’s everything. Again, any questions, experiences and other advice would be great to hear, so please comment. As I have said, this is all from my perspective and others will have experienced something different.