Due to the popularity of my last post on some advice on how to best put things when writing those all important sex scenes, I decided to continue the theme! Today, I will be discussing an all time favourite by all guys, the blow job! There are some basic tips, and remember, these are 'generalisations' and all guys are different.  

1) No teeth (unless he asks for it)!
 
2) Practice your gag reflex by experimenting on a spoon first. Push it down to the back of your throat as far as you can comfortably go so you know your limitation. In other words, how deep you can suck that cock without chucking up all over him (not a good look, spew and pubes and a mad dash to the toilet to clean up. A real mood killer if there ever was one). If you can do this without gagging and you know your limit, you are doing well. Remember, generally, as soon as 'anything' touches the uvula, then it will be all over, I'm afraid. 

Guys love having their cock being sunk into someone's mouth as deep as it will go. Once you are experienced and can get that cock in your mouth without bother, pretend 'gagging' noises will give him a thrill. Sure, at first he might be a tad concerned about you, but really, deep down, he's thinking: Oh, fuck yeah, take it all because I'm the King of the World (that will give you new meaning to Leonardo's words from Titanic) LOL

3) Ball play. Great while sucking. Remember, they don't just hang there to look pretty. You want to milk those puppies for all that lovely cum. After all, why bother otherwise? Don't be too rough on the balls (unless he asks for it) They are sensitive. Just some rolling around with your fingertips of some touch behind the ball sack will usually be sufficient. 

4) If your man is intact (has a foreskin), lick around the frenulum. That is an intact guys, HOLY FUCK I'm gonna explode zone. Some cut guys have this part, too, depending on how they were cut. (it's the bridge of skin which joins the foreskin to the head of the penis) But generally remember, the tongue is his best friend when it comes to cock sucking. He'll beg for more if you use that tongue frequently and generously. 

5) For that 'docking' sensation, pucker your lips and push his head into you that way. You will be nice and tight for him and he will like that as you slowly push your 'closed' lips over his shaft. He'll be thinking he's fucking a virginal mouth. And all guys love them virgins! 

6) Saliva! Lots of it please. 

7) Pull at the root of his cock, too. That will stretch his skin and make him even more crazy while you work.
 
8) Above all, enthusiasm, enthusiasm, enthusiasm. Nothing better than watching someone else enjoy your cock just as much as you do. Smile, laugh, suck until your jaw aches, hum while he's in your mouth, use your tongue, your hands, and above all, treat it like it's giving you oxygen. It's not just an icecream that needs licking, it's an extension of your man's ego. Treat it as such and you can't go wrong.

I hope you enjoyed today's post. More to come...